Someone once asked me, how is married life?
For me it's bliss, why won't it be? You get married for love?
I guess it's not always like that, sometimes you think, you thought you were and are doing the right thing! My first marriage unfortunately ended in divorce after 3 years. I have to say , it was a true blessing when it ended, I felt trapped and miserable! I was young, foolish and naive.
BUT to say the least, I'm a romantic at heart and I truly believe there is a soul mate out there meant for each person. I have found mine, it was not easy, sometimes we have to open our hearts and eyes to something new and unexpected.
After 5 years of dating, living together, and a child did we embark on the biggest journey of our lives - marriage. I now know what bliss is! So if I can just give you one motivation, it would be to do things backwards. It worked for me, I'm not saying its the right way, but sure helped to get all the challenging things out the way first. We did not put expectations on each other.
Tis not love at first sight
But love that grows
Day by day
Love that binds
Love that holds
Love that's true
Love that's honest
Love that's passionate
Eyes to see
Heart to keep
Soul mates forever
My wish to all of you is to find your love that you seek.
I got married on the 1st of December 2012, that was my fairy tale dream come true!
From the heart
Char
Wednesday, 30 January 2013
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